{"id":15338,"date":"2011-12-31T01:55:08","date_gmt":"2011-12-30T23:55:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/talentirosit.ro\/?p=15338"},"modified":"2011-12-31T01:55:08","modified_gmt":"2011-12-30T23:55:08","slug":"pentru-ca-si-voi-v-ati-manjit-cu-chisleag-candva-demult","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juverdeanu.ro\/blog\/pentru-ca-si-voi-v-ati-manjit-cu-chisleag-candva-demult","title":{"rendered":"Pentru c\u0103 \u015fi voi v-a\u0163i m\u00e2njit cu chi\u015fleag, c\u00e2ndva, demult"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cencepem cu vulnerabilitatea<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u0103 facem un experiment. S\u0103 presupunem c\u0103 v-a\u0163i fi n\u0103scut dup\u0103 90, c\u00e2nd toat\u0103 lumea visa cu ochii deschi\u015fi la viitorul roz bonbon. Trece\u0163i prin 21 de ani cam a\u015fa: „la 15 ani voi fi matur, realizat”. Apoi trec 5 ani: „la 20 de ani voi fi matur, realizat”. Ideea de a fi matur \u00eenseamn\u0103, pe termeni mai simpli, c\u0103 dispare vulnerabilitatea infantil\u0103. Adic\u0103 nu \u0163i se mai face fric\u0103 de fiecare chi\u0163ibu\u015f care pare acum o piedic\u0103.<\/p>\n

Evident, chi\u0163ibu\u015ful e mai mare cu fiecare zi care trece, iar vulnerabilitatea e dat\u0103 de lipsa siguran\u0163ei. Urmeaz\u0103 c\u00e2teva explica\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

Maturitate, stabilitate, siguran\u0163\u0103<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siguran\u0163a \u00een viziunea celor ca voi, adic\u0103 a celor care v-a\u0163i n\u0103scut \u00een epoca ceau\u015fist\u0103, \u00eenseamn\u0103 studii, serviciu stabil, cas\u0103 \u015fi familie. Exist\u0103 posibilitatea s\u0103 invers\u0103m ultimele dou\u0103 pentru c\u0103 se poate \u015fi nu ne critic\u0103 nimeni. Dar cele mai importante sunt studiile.<\/p>\n

Siguran\u0163a celor care trec acum prin experimentul meu este identic\u0103, mai pu\u0163in la partea cu inversatul. Sigur, studiile sunt importante, pentru c\u0103 orgoliul este m\u00e2ng\u00e2iat duios atunci c\u00e2nd afli c\u0103 e\u015fti „superior” intelectual. Dar nu sunt mai importante dec\u00e2t un loc de munc\u0103 \u015fi, \u00een niciun caz, nu bat necesitatea unui c\u0103min propriu. A\u015fa se explic\u0103 abandonul \u015fcolar \u015fi ratatul vie\u0163ii. Pentru c\u0103 to\u0163i se arunc\u0103.<\/p>\n

Locul de munc\u0103<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103-\u0163i croie\u015fti calea c\u0103tre siguran\u0163\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 mergi cu ghicitul pentru viitor. Pentru c\u0103 studiile superioare nu-\u0163i vor garanta un loc de munc\u0103 a\u015fa cum era, probabil, prin anii 80. Mai r\u0103u, cu legile fiscale din Rom\u00e2nia, preferi s\u0103 te angajezi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 specifici c\u0103 ai diplome pentru c\u0103 ri\u015fti s\u0103 fii scuipat \u00eentre ochi. Pentru c\u0103 angajatorii nu-\u015fi permit taxele pentru un angajat cu studii superioare, pentru c\u0103 sunt obliga\u0163i s\u0103 treac\u0103 pe h\u00e2rtie sume pe care nu \u015fi le permit. Astfel, inginerul cu \u015fcoala vie\u0163ii va lua fa\u0163a inginerului cu studii superioare. Pentru c\u0103 e mai ieftin.<\/p>\n

Casa<\/strong><\/p>\n

Apoi, ai studii \u015fi ai un loc de munc\u0103. Urmeaz\u0103 casa, pentru care s-a inventat o glum\u0103 proast\u0103 numit\u0103 „prima cas\u0103” \u015fi o alt\u0103 glum\u0103 hilar\u0103 numit\u0103 „Locuin\u0163e pentru tineri”. Adic\u0103 nu sunt \u00een m\u0103sur\u0103 s\u0103 judec, dar s\u0103 dai cas\u0103 pe criterii gen: puncte \u00een plus pentru persoanele cu handicap mi se pare \u00a0macabru. Urmeaz\u0103 chiriile \u015fi \u00eemprumuturile bancare pentru care \u00ee\u0163i po\u0163i lua adio de la orice sentiment de stabilitate.<\/p>\n

Familia<\/strong><\/p>\n

Poate unii oameni g\u0103sesc o m\u00e2ndrie \u00een a-\u015fi \u00eentemeia o familia \u00een casa p\u0103rin\u0163ilor. S\u0103 ai 30 de ani \u015fi s\u0103 locuie\u015fti pe spinarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor. S\u0103 aspiri la un puradel \u015fi s\u0103 ocupi 50 de metri p\u0103tra\u0163i cu oameni \u00een loc de mobil\u0103. Atunci va trebui s\u0103 te duci la cr\u00e2\u015fm\u0103, s\u0103 bei p\u00e2n\u0103 pici \u015fi s\u0103 te ba\u0163i cu pumnul \u00een piept c\u0103 e\u015fti fericit \u00een \u0163ara ta. Chiar dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i iei cas\u0103 printr-un program gen prima cas\u0103, sau prin credit bancar, tot nu ai avea posibilitatea \u00eentemeierii unei familii \u00een care s\u0103 fii at\u00e2t de fericit \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 z\u00e2mbe\u015fti c\u0103 ai siguran\u0163a. Nu o ai. E imposibil.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2t despre orgoliu, eu zic c\u0103 e la p\u0103m\u00e2nt. Pentru c\u0103, s\u0103 fim sinceri, atunci c\u00e2nd descoperi c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i petreci 20 de ani \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u00e2nd, iar la 30 de ani abia \u00ee\u0163i g\u0103se\u015fti un loc de munc\u0103 prost pl\u0103tit, deja e\u015fti un om ratat.<\/p>\n

Experimentul meu e simplu<\/strong>: a\u0163i prefera s\u0103 duce\u0163i via\u0163a pe care am descris-o mai sus sau cea pe care o ave\u0163i acum \u015fi prin care a\u0163i avut c\u00e2ndva o cas\u0103 garantat\u0103 de stat \u015fi un loc de munc\u0103? Zic, chi\u015fleagul meu parc\u0103 are prea mult zer.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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